How to Actually Enjoy Wedding Planning (Yes, It’s Possible!) | Jubilee Weddings and Events
- Delphine Jespersen
- 7 hours ago
- 3 min read
Being engaged is one of the most exciting chapters of your life—but let’s be honest, wedding planning doesn’t always feel like a fairytale. With decisions to make, budgets to track, and opinions flying from every direction, it can be easy to lose sight of the joy in the process. The good news? It is possible to enjoy wedding planning—deeply, fully, and meaningfully.
As a wedding planning company who has guided countless couples down the aisle, I’m here to share a few secrets to help you stay grounded, happy, and inspired every step of the way.
1. Start with What Matters Most
Before diving into color palettes and guest lists, take a moment to sit down as a couple and ask: What do we really want our wedding to feel like? Is it an elegant evening with candlelight and string quartets? A joyful backyard BBQ with lawn games and laughter? Let your answers guide every decision from here on out. When your planning is rooted in your values, it becomes more meaningful—and a lot more fun.
2. Don’t Plan Alone—Build a Dream Team
You don’t have to do this all on your own (and you shouldn't). Whether it’s a full-service wedding planner, a day-of coordinator, or just a few reliable family members and friends, having support changes everything. Surround yourself with people who listen, care, and understand your vision—and who won’t mind reminding you to eat lunch during a 6-hour decor planning session!
3. Break It Down (So It Doesn’t Break You)
The “everything all at once” mindset is a fast track to overwhelm. Instead, break the process down into phases. Celebrate each milestone—booking the venue, saying yes to the dress, locking in the DJ. Take it one decision at a time, and you’ll stay sane (and maybe even have fun doing it).
4. Make Planning a Part of the Celebration
Why not turn your planning sessions into mini date nights? Whether it’s cake tasting, venue touring, or mood boarding with a glass of wine, find ways to make the experience feel romantic and connected. This isn’t just about a wedding day—it’s about building a life together.
5. Say “No” (and Mean It)
You don’t need to invite your mom’s coworker. You don’t have to wear white. You’re allowed to skip traditions that don’t resonate with you. Empower yourself to say “no” to things that don’t fit your vision or values. This is your wedding—and embracing your authenticity makes the planning process much more joyful.
6. Trust the Process (and the Professionals)
When you hire vendors you trust, and give yourself permission to let go of perfection, magic happens. Wedding coordinators are here to make your life easier. Lean on your experts, communicate your vision, and then let them do what they do best. You'll thank yourself later.
7. Keep the Big Picture in Sight
Amid the details and deadlines, don’t lose sight of why you're doing this in the first place: to celebrate love. Every time you feel overwhelmed, come back to that. This is about the beginning of your forever—and that’s something worth smiling about.
Planning your wedding doesn’t have to be a stress-filled whirlwind. With a little intention, the right support, and a whole lot of heart, it can be one of the most joyful, empowering experiences of your life.
So take a deep breath, pour a glass of champagne (or coffee), and remember: You’ve got this—and it’s going to be beautiful.
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