The Glamour of Black Tie Weddings | Jubilee Weddings and Events
- Delphine Jespersen
- 2 days ago
- 3 min read
There’s something undeniably magical about a black tie wedding. With its elegant dress code, timeless details, and refined ambiance, a black tie affair elevates the traditional wedding experience to something truly unforgettable. But with great style comes great responsibility—so what exactly is a black tie wedding, and how can you plan one without losing your mind (or your budget)?
So, what actually is a black tie wedding?! At its core, “black tie” refers to the dress code: men in tuxedos and women in floor-length gowns (or ultra-elegant cocktail dresses). But black tie weddings are about more than attire—they’re about setting a mood of sophistication and classic luxury. Think candlelit ballrooms, formal dining, a string quartet, and refined design.
Is It Right for You?
If you and your partner love timeless style, appreciate formal traditions, and want to create a cinematic, once-in-a-lifetime experience for your guests, black tie could be your perfect match. Just make sure your venue, vision, and guest list align with a more upscale tone.
Does the Venue Match the Vibe?
Black tie weddings thrive in spaces that reflect their formality. Consider:
Historic estates or mansions
Grand ballrooms
Upscale hotels or rooftop spaces
Art museums or iconic architectural venues
These types of spaces naturally elevate the event and make it easier to match the formality of the dress code and decor.
What's the Typical Dress Code?
For Men: A tuxedo is a must. Classic black with a bow tie is traditional, but navy or velvet can offer a modern twist.
For Women: Floor-length gowns are the norm, though a very dressy cocktail dress can work. Think elegant fabrics like satin, silk, or sequins—this is the time for drama and sophistication.
As the couple, you should also reflect the formality. Consider a tailored tux, a structured ball gown, or elevated accessories like gloves, capes, or vintage veils.
What Does the Decor Look Like?
Black tie decor doesn’t have to mean black and white. Rich tones like deep emerald, burgundy, navy, or gold all work beautifully. Here are some luxe touches that elevate your event:
Crystal chandeliers and dramatic uplighting
Formal table settings with charger plates and cloth napkins
Tall floral centerpieces and abundant candlelight
A live band or string quartet for that timeless soundtrack
What Will Your Guests Experience?
Black tie weddings are a little more formal, so set expectations clearly on the invite (use traditional wording like “Black Tie Attire Requested”). You might also consider:
Providing a coat check
Offering a champagne welcome
Planning multiple courses or plated dinner service
Ending the night with a luxe dessert bar or late-night bite station
This is about creating a cohesive, elevated experience from the moment guests arrive.
Will It Fit In the Budget?
You don’t need an unlimited budget, but you do need to prioritize. Focus on the high-impact elements: venue, music, lighting, attire, and food. With thoughtful planning and the right team, you can create a luxurious feel without breaking the bank.
A black tie wedding is more than just a dress code—it’s a celebration of love, tradition, and elegance. Whether you’re going full Gatsby glam or modern Hollywood chic, a well-planned black tie event will leave your guests in awe and your memories sparkling.
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